As a working mother, I have very limited time to spend just hanging out with the kids and opportunities for individual time are even more rare.
With little sister begging to go to playschool during the school holidays and me having a day off work, Joshua and I took the opportunity to have a mommy and son date while dad stayed home.
Initially, we had planned to watch a movie but unfortunately Josh did not meet any of the age restriction requirements for Independence Day or The Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles so we came up with a new plan – bookstore and pizza!
Pizza and lectures on the earth
Due to the change of plans from our movie date, we decided on a pizza and a treat at the bookstore. My son has loads of toys but at the age of nine, what he enjoys most is a good book.
Joshua spent some of his birthday money on a book that is every budding scientist’s dream! It’s a Discovery Channel book called “Discover the mega world: 3, 000 facts about everything enormous!”.
The new book is absolutely awesome! It really does have loads of very interesting facts “about everything” to keep him occupied for the rest of the school holidays at least! Or so I thought….
We had our pizza at Panarotti’s because of their Tuesday 2 for 1 special. After ordering our pizzas, Joshua took the opportunity of having me trapped by him in a corner booth (he wanted to sit beside me) to read aloud almost all of the first 100 facts from his book. I had nowhere to run!
Joshua was talking so animatedly he hardly even touched his pizza. A few customers stopped by our table occasionally to tell us what a treat it was to see a child so excited with a reading book instead of having his nose in a cellphone!
We spoke about everything under the sun. And I mean that literally because of his new book! I hope we can get to spend one on one time again on another mommy and son date really soon!
As a working mother, life is busy and I often forget that the most important thing I should be doing is making time to just hang out and engage with the kids. A mommy and son date made me feel connected with Joshua and it made him feel incredibly special to have so much individual attention.
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